When your vagina feels very tight, as though nothing could go inside, you may have a condition called vaginismus. In almost all cases, the vulva and vagina are completely healthy. Primary vaginismus, where nothing has ever entered the vagina, not even a tampon, is common among girls who have had a very loving, but sometimes over-protective background. They may have grown up with well-meaning but powerful taboos around sex and find it hard to move past that. You can get help if you have vaginismus.
Tight and painful vagina
The painful truth about 'tight vaginas'
Have a question about sex or sexual health? Send it to sexQs buzzfeed. I don't have sex all that often, but when I do penetration tends to be painful with the exception of a small penis I had sex with that didn't hurt me. I don't bleed from penetration anymore, but I had hoped the pain would be restricted to the first few times I had sex as I "got used to" penetration or whatever, but this hasn't happened. Not all penetration is painful — my fingers and very I mean, VERY small sex toys can go in without any discomfort, but anything bigger is an issue. During sex I normally just put up with it, as the pain isn't as bad after the initial penetration, but it's not exactly fun.
Sex Q&A: Is My Vagina Too Tight?
The notion of vaginal tightness holds a special place in our culture. When comedian Nikki Glaser recently pretended to interview other girls to date her boyfriend as part of their open relationship, vagina tightness was the key vetting criteria. Strangely, all the candidates insisted they were extremely tight— too tight, even. Decades of regressive, sexist messages are effective in part because they manage to mutate while still maintaining their effects. More commonly, the pain itself was pleasure.
At times, a woman may notice her vagina feels tighter than usual. This is because the vagina changes over the course of a woman's life as a result of aging and natural events, such as pregnancy and childbirth. Sometimes, these changes may cause a vagina to feel tighter than normal.
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